If You’re Going to Advertise Plus-Size Tights, Hire Plus-Size Models

Source: Wish.com

While society pretends it’s become more body positive, encouraging women to “love their curves” at every turn, actions continue to speak louder than words. Just because clothing retailers cater to those deemed plus-size by the fashion industry doesn’t mean they remain sensitive to this marginalized group’s wants or needs.

Wish.com, for instance, has come under fire for its recent advertisement featuring plus-size tights. The site, which sells inexpensive products directly to consumers from Chinese manufacturers, offers $2 tights that come in black or nude. But it’s how these “Plus Size Ultra Elastic Tights Stockings Women Sexy Shaping Pantyhose Socks” are displayed that’s causing quite the controversy.

Every image shows slim models stretching the tights up and over their petite frames in what one can only assume is the retailer’s attempt at demonstrating the product’s size.

Except the execution couldn’t be any more offensive.

While most of the images show the models pulling the material up around their shoulders or over their face, another shows the model standing inside one leg, presumably to demonstrate how far the product can stretch without running or ripping.

Source: Wish.com

“What is the point they are trying to make here? That our thunder thighs are so big that their model can fit her entire body into a pair of our tights?” said Cosmopolitan UK fashion and beauty writer Laura Capon. “Round of applause for her, well bloody done. Now do you want me to model a pair or “regular” tights by wearing them on my finger?”

It’s unclear as to whose tone-deaf brainchild this was — Wish.com has declined to comment to multiple media outlets about the images in question — but it’s blatantly obvious that the mastermind behind this shameful concept has no regard for the feelings of those who wear anything larger than a size eight.

If the company wants to sell plus-size clothing and accessories, why not appeal to said demographic by hiring plus-size women to model the products? Many would agree such a strategy sounds like common sense, but if that were the case, Twitter wouldn’t be up in arms over this subtle sort of body shaming—and rightfully so.

According to social media, Wish.com might’ve lifted the images from ads for “magic tights” that were designed to withstand any condition without tearing. Regardless of the circumstances, Wish.com made the decision to attribute these photos to the sale of plus-size tights, which deserves the subsequent outpouring of disgust. While the models themselves might be innocent, the site itself must be held accountable.

There are countless ways to body shame people without calling them out explicitly, and this instance fits those criteria perfectly. Wish.com had the opportunity to embrace the plus-size community and employ models that might otherwise struggle in a fashion industry that has yet to truly embrace women who don’t fit the mold society’s created. Instead, the retailer chose to send its target market running in the opposite direction. Without an apology, Wish.com will only reinforce the assumption that it doesn’t approve of these women’s bodies, and that’s the quickest way to alienate any and every shopper with an ounce of decency and compassion for their fellow humans.

(This post originally appeared on Storia.)

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5 Women Who Deserve People’s ‘Most Beautiful’ Title More Than Julia Roberts

People Magazine probably thought it was doing something noble when it named Julia Roberts as its “Most Beautiful” woman of 2017. After all, she’s nearly 50—practically prehistoric in Hollywood terms, especially compared to the first time she graced the issue’s cover in 1991 at the ripe old age of 23. But when you’ve chosen the same actress a record five times, the tradition starts to seem stale. Society’s perception of beauty continues to evolve, but People’s formula remains the same. Maybe it’s time to shake things up? Here are just five women who’ve redefined beauty on their own terms, earning them the right to the title (even if they didn’t make the list in the first place).

Betty White

One quick glance at the “Most Beautiful” list reveals that Oprah Winfrey’s the oldest person on this year’s roster. (She’s 63.) But why must People perpetuate the notion that youth equals beauty? If age truly isn’t an issue for those doling out the title, White surely deserves the honor. (They could’ve included her, at least.) She’s America’s sweetheart. She’s devoted literal decades to the entertainment world and, at 95, she’s still as spry, feisty, and funny as ever. Honestly, she’s beautiful in ways that these younger women can only aspire to achieve one day.

Hillary Clinton

When it comes to Clinton, the term “nasty woman” comes to mind. But after the impact she’s had on the women’s movement in recent months, her legacy will be one of the most beautiful things to emerge from our tumultuous political situation. Though she might’ve lost the 2016 election, Clinton’s attempt to break the glass ceiling has inspired 11,000 women to seek office, while encouraging countless others to fight for their human rights. She embodies the adversity women face every day, yet she still persists. If that sort of resilience and tenacity isn’t beautiful, then this world’s uglier than we thought.

Laverne Cox

Despite the fact that many people claim they’re inclusive, the transgender community has yet to gain complete acceptance throughout society. Cox, however, has been working diligently to fight for both transgender rights and women’s rights ever since she broke into the business. She represents the beauty America has to offer, if only we’d take the time to listen and understand, and such an honor could be instrumental in sparking critical conversations. Yes, it’d likely create controversy, but that’s precisely why we need to increase transgender visibility. Cox not only deserves the title, but naming her “Most Beautiful” might also help young people struggling with their own transition recognize that they’re not alone.

Michelle Obama

Our former First Lady has always been the embodiment of class and dignity. She’s beautiful on the outside thanks to her love of physical fitness, and she’s beautiful on the inside because she stands up for what she believes in no matter the obstacles. Beyond all else, Mrs. Obama has always been a champion for young girls. She’s taught this generation that education and intellectual pursuits are far more important than fixating on your outward appearance. She inspires females of all ages to pursue their passions and ignore the haters. In this instance, beauty isn’t just visual—it’s mental, too.

Melissa McCarthy

Jerry Lewis once claimed women cannot be funny. But anyone who’s witnessed McCarthy’s scathing impression of Press Secretary Sean Spicer on SNL knows that assertion couldn’t be further from the truth. McCarthy has emerged as one of the leading comedians of our time. While she might’ve initially won our hearts as Sookie St. James on Gilmore Girls, she has since become one of the most in-demand actresses in the industry (all without some stick-thin figure, mind you). From the looks of things, Chrissy Metz and Adele appear to be the only full figure gals on the list, perpetuating the notion that bigger isn’t always considered beautiful. But when “big” applies to the laughs you get from the live studio audience, dress size doesn’t (and shouldn’t) matter.

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(This post originally appeared on Storia.)

Something Borrowed…

The following quote is taken from #246 of my favorite web comic, Questionable Content, by Jeph Jacques. http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=246

I just feel like people would be so much happier if they just dropped all the pretense and mindgame bullshit in relationships and just went for it, you know?  Like “fuck it, I’m gonna try and make this work and not worry about potential problems.” – Marten

The words are his; I just expanded upon the idea…

It has been said that hate is easy, while love takes courage.  We can effortlessly shun our annoying neighbor, yet we cannot seem to muster up the nerve to say ‘I love you’.  We can deliver a punch more readily than a bouquet of roses.  We can gossip behind someone’s back more easily than patting them for a job well done.

We live in a world that is focused too much on the future and what could happen, making us forget to enjoy the present.  By failing to preserve the present, we eradicate all possibilities of a healthy and successful future.

The beauty of being in a relationship comes from truly being in the relationship.  By immersing yourself in the love and companionship of another person, you feel a calm easiness that lets you know you are doing something right.  Surely there will be bumps in the road along the way, but overall, a good relationship is one that makes you smile from ear-to-ear.  Whether you wake up next to each other every morning, or spend your days counting down the hours until you next see your love, this smile gives you the ambition to make it through the humdrum activities of everyday life.

Love is not finding fault with everything your significant other does, but accepting the good characteristics along with the bad habits – the whole package.  Love is the feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when you remember your first kiss or a parting embrace.  (I believe this is why everyone is always told to ‘go with their gut’.)  Love means knowing you always have a hand to hold.

If love is what you seek, take action.  Do not let cowardice cause you to miss out on something wonderful.  If love is what you have, treasure it.  Relationships are tough work, chock full of inevitable problems, let alone the false ones you may conjure in your head.  But, if you pour your whole heart into loving another, the reward will fill you will life.